In case you didn’t know, there has been a slight geographical change in Europe.
FINLAND IS NO LONGER A NEIGHBOUR OF SWEDEN AND...
i remember when knotting was a foreign concept to me
okay let’s take a vote
a) get drunk tonight and then be sober tomorrow for the sweden vs. finland game and the eurovision finale
Okay, see, here’s the inherent flaw with pretty much all modern (and some classic...
The title of my tumblr has always been ‘where do you get your ideas from’ because I originally started it to store things that inspired me one way...
Finally, there’s the question of whether feminism has any business saving women from themselves. Because there’s a really bad track record here. At various times, various branches of feminism have swooped in to “save” femme women, married women, women who stay home with their kids, women who do sex work, cis women who welcome trans women into women’s spaces—and it has always been a disaster. It’s forced women to defend their dignity and even their safety from the people who are supposed to be advocating for them. I’m not saying any of these groups are the same as submissive women, obviously, only that “you say you want this… you poor thing” hasn’t historically worked out well for feminism.
How can I be a feminist and do BDSM? Because I trust women to know their own desires. Because BDSM does not stand apart from the world at large, and if we have to live in this world anyway, we might as well do what we love. Because I love and respect my body, my mind, and my potential as a human being—and all three are going “hell yeah, I totally want this.”
Mother. Fucking. Slow. Clap.